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		<title>By: JayeL</title>
		<link>http://craftnectar.com/2009/09/10/the-friends-every-maker-needs/#comment-466</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2009 14:10:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tact is very important when discussing pieces because projects we have worked on become so dear to our hearts.  I am really glad you have a group like this. I have always thought it would be difficult to be part of a regular quilt or creativity group. 

The work on the Sweet Tooth piece is unbelievable. Thanks for showing the detail. I was especially enamored of the rock-type chips used as nuts (??)  on the cake. Brilliant. I am sure that looking at this in person meant that each inch brought a new discovery.
thanks.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tact is very important when discussing pieces because projects we have worked on become so dear to our hearts.  I am really glad you have a group like this. I have always thought it would be difficult to be part of a regular quilt or creativity group. </p>
<p>The work on the Sweet Tooth piece is unbelievable. Thanks for showing the detail. I was especially enamored of the rock-type chips used as nuts (??)  on the cake. Brilliant. I am sure that looking at this in person meant that each inch brought a new discovery.<br />
thanks.</p>
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		<title>By: Mary Ann/Ca</title>
		<link>http://craftnectar.com/2009/09/10/the-friends-every-maker-needs/#comment-427</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Mary Ann/Ca]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2009 23:07:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have the same kind of group Weeks. It started from a class at the LQS in 1998. We had all signed up to make an elaborate appliqued chicken quilt. When the year ended we found we wanted to stay together so we picked out another applique quilt.   We made a Millennium quilt, meeting once a month.  Since that time the shop has closed some folks have dropped out, we have added 2 more but the core 6 of us still meet nearly every month, sometimes adding a Saturday road trip and we now do a yearly retreat at one of the members vacation house. We range in age from mid 40 to 75yr. we have very different skills, and talk about everything. We have wonderful show and tells, pushing each other to try new things.  I don&#039;t know what I&#039;d do without this group of women in my life.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have the same kind of group Weeks. It started from a class at the LQS in 1998. We had all signed up to make an elaborate appliqued chicken quilt. When the year ended we found we wanted to stay together so we picked out another applique quilt.   We made a Millennium quilt, meeting once a month.  Since that time the shop has closed some folks have dropped out, we have added 2 more but the core 6 of us still meet nearly every month, sometimes adding a Saturday road trip and we now do a yearly retreat at one of the members vacation house. We range in age from mid 40 to 75yr. we have very different skills, and talk about everything. We have wonderful show and tells, pushing each other to try new things.  I don&#8217;t know what I&#8217;d do without this group of women in my life.</p>
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		<title>By: Weeks</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Weeks]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 01:22:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[That&#039;s a good question Mary so I thought I&#039;d post the response so other people can see the answer.

When I lived in Tokyo I had a similar group with whom I took ikebana classes for seven years from the time I was 22 until I left Japan at 29. The group ranged in age from 19 to early 70s. I learned so much from these women and have a picture of them hanging in my kitchen. It&#039;s hard to explain how much that group made me the person I am today. I think about them every day. 

For years I longed for that group and missed them every Saturday until I decided that it was time for me to take the lead and start my own group but with quilters.

All of the people in our group had taken classes with us and most had done at least one session of the week-long Design Camp we have run in the past. I specifically chose people whose work, attitude and demeanor I wanted to have in my life for a long, long time. I wanted the members to have a wide variety of skills and interests and I really didn&#039;t want a bunch of people who just wanted to make quilts like ours. In addition, I didn&#039;t include people who might make incredible quilts but would be unreliable or a downer to be around and would bring the rest of the group down. Although the group offered to pay, I refused to take any money because then I would feel like the teacher. I wanted to be able to be &quot;off the clock&quot; and learn some things instead of always being in the teaching mode.

Over the years some members have changed and sometimes there will only be three or four of us in a given month because of travel or schedule conflicts but that&#039;s fine. 

If I were you I would take a class somewhere or go to a guild meeting and see if there are people who would like to join you on a trial basis. You might also post a notice at several local quilt stores. Maybe you say it&#039;s going to be for six months only. Meet at some neutral location like a conference room at the local library. At the end of the six months you&#039;ll know if it&#039;s a good fit or not. Having a definitive end date gives you an easy out if it&#039;s not working out but also the option to renew and establish something more permanent if it&#039;s helpful.

I hope this helps you get started. Since you&#039;re nearby, I&#039;ll extend this offer: If you get a group together, and want me to come talk to your group about some guidelines that we&#039;ve found helpful, call me at FunQuilts and I&#039;ll come chat with your group for a bit. For those of you who aren&#039;t local and want some guidance for your group, I&#039;d be happy to Skype with you. Making these connections with people who share your interest is a really wonderful thing and I want everyone who wants it to have it.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s a good question Mary so I thought I&#8217;d post the response so other people can see the answer.</p>
<p>When I lived in Tokyo I had a similar group with whom I took ikebana classes for seven years from the time I was 22 until I left Japan at 29. The group ranged in age from 19 to early 70s. I learned so much from these women and have a picture of them hanging in my kitchen. It&#8217;s hard to explain how much that group made me the person I am today. I think about them every day. </p>
<p>For years I longed for that group and missed them every Saturday until I decided that it was time for me to take the lead and start my own group but with quilters.</p>
<p>All of the people in our group had taken classes with us and most had done at least one session of the week-long Design Camp we have run in the past. I specifically chose people whose work, attitude and demeanor I wanted to have in my life for a long, long time. I wanted the members to have a wide variety of skills and interests and I really didn&#8217;t want a bunch of people who just wanted to make quilts like ours. In addition, I didn&#8217;t include people who might make incredible quilts but would be unreliable or a downer to be around and would bring the rest of the group down. Although the group offered to pay, I refused to take any money because then I would feel like the teacher. I wanted to be able to be &#8220;off the clock&#8221; and learn some things instead of always being in the teaching mode.</p>
<p>Over the years some members have changed and sometimes there will only be three or four of us in a given month because of travel or schedule conflicts but that&#8217;s fine. </p>
<p>If I were you I would take a class somewhere or go to a guild meeting and see if there are people who would like to join you on a trial basis. You might also post a notice at several local quilt stores. Maybe you say it&#8217;s going to be for six months only. Meet at some neutral location like a conference room at the local library. At the end of the six months you&#8217;ll know if it&#8217;s a good fit or not. Having a definitive end date gives you an easy out if it&#8217;s not working out but also the option to renew and establish something more permanent if it&#8217;s helpful.</p>
<p>I hope this helps you get started. Since you&#8217;re nearby, I&#8217;ll extend this offer: If you get a group together, and want me to come talk to your group about some guidelines that we&#8217;ve found helpful, call me at FunQuilts and I&#8217;ll come chat with your group for a bit. For those of you who aren&#8217;t local and want some guidance for your group, I&#8217;d be happy to Skype with you. Making these connections with people who share your interest is a really wonderful thing and I want everyone who wants it to have it.</p>
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		<title>By: Mary P</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2009 23:04:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[How did you go about starting your group?  I live in Chicago and would love to belong to a group like that, but don&#039;t really know where to start.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How did you go about starting your group?  I live in Chicago and would love to belong to a group like that, but don&#8217;t really know where to start.</p>
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